So… I’ve been meaning to have and publish this conversation between myself and the Akashic Records for quite some time but today, at 6 am, the Records said “Enough” and woke me up to talk about sex, not just as a physical act but its spiritual implications as well.

This has been posted on YouTube but I thought it important to transcribe it into text as well for those who prefer to read their information.

Sex is something that affects every living creature on our Earth. To be too ashamed to speak on it is something we as a collective should agree to start unlearning as it is incredibly delusional of humanity to think that if we ignore the sex talk long enough, it’ll just go away.

Anyway, because it is such a universal topic and because I’m not about that slut-shaming life, I decided to just ask the most reliable source of information I have: the Akashic Records.

If you do not know much about the Records, please click here to check out an interview I did to learn more.

As always, this is a piece co-written by myself and the Akashic Records. I jump in with my own commentary but most of the information is channeled with the intention of being the most helpful. I hope it illuminates your doubts and provokes deeper questions for all who come across this content.

What is the purpose of sex?

The purpose of sex is to procreate and birth new evolutionary circumstances for those involved within an exchange. [Evolutionary meaning circumstances that trigger growth and expansion] The purpose of sex goes much more deep than creating new human life in the physical sense (i.e making a baby). Every act of sexual exchange has embedded within it the purpose of creating energetic environments and relationships designed to test and stretch the Soul into its highest expression. You may not create a human baby every time you indulge in sex, but you are creating a new direction for your soul path every time. Many epiphanies have been reached via orgasm as well many evils have been committed to human and light bodies as a result of the lack of understanding that human beings have for sex. Sex is not inherently shameful. It is a tool for creation, to be held with as much sanctity as any other tool you use for creation. Remember the holy trinity: Father, Son and Holy Spirit. Mind, Body, Spirit. Thought. Word. Deed. Sex is the integration of all three components. The purpose of sexual exchange is first and foremost to create physical moments of joy, to be so joyful that it fills every cell of the body with the sensation of pleasure. This only becomes tainted when this joy is shameful or repressed. In sexual exchange, you create new desires, new challenges, new ideas, new personalities and yes, new life too. In short, the purpose of sex is to joyfully participate in the delicious act of pure energetic creation. What you create from this sexual exchange depends on the state of mind, body and spirit of the individuals participating in the sexual act. It is important to exchange energy with the best and clearest intentions to provide the best possible outcomes.

 Is sex a sin? Should we stay away from it? 

Sex in itself is not inherently a sin. It is not wrong. It wouldn’t be created at all if it were completely detrimental to the human experience. It doesn’t exist in other dimensions for other life beings and things go fine for them as things would for you if you truly understood the act and purpose of sex instead of spending most of your lives being ashamed and wronged for it.

Sex is not something to shy away from but with all good things, it is something to be very disciplined and cautious with. Everything good in life becomes bad when it is too much. Everything that is bad becomes good if enough people do it, accept it and do so for a long time. 

Everything good in life becomes bad when it is too much. Everything bad becomes good if enough people do it, accept it and do so for a long time”

-Akashic Records via Sugarxndpice

When it comes to sex as an act of pleasure and joy, no it is not a sin and yes, it should be enjoyed because it was created to be a moment of joy shared between two people. 
It becomes perverted and disfigured from its original purity when the intent is to harm, hurt, and overpower another life. When sex is acted on with no respect for the laws of nature and with no mindfulness, with utter abandon of integrity and the magic of intimacy, then this is when it becomes detrimental to the direction that humanity claims to want to move in.

If you truly want a world of peace, abundance and respect then it must start at an individual level. Discipline your sexual encounters. Indulge only with a clear intention and the clearest intention is always the Highest, most Godly intention you could use for your life at the moment. For example, if what you desire most of right now is clarity and answers, it is permissible to discuss this with a partner you trust whom might help you achieve total clarity in the trance of sexual activities. There are many other tools of creation to achieve clarity but if sexual exchange is what you feel best serves this need for answers, it is permissible to set this intention and enjoy your lover in every moment of beautiful togetherness. 

Are there any spiritual consequences of frequent or diverse sexual encounters when love is absent?

[I was asking about casual sex without emotional commitments/investments]

Yes. As there are consequences for any action taken at all, so too does it occur with sexual exchange in the absence of emotional investment. It may affect men and women differently. For women, it depletes them of what makes them miraculous beings to begin with: their power. Women sit in their fullest power when they are a whole being, choosy in their partnerships, be it friend or foe. They are decisive and in control of their destiny. When women give their sexual energy freely, many find themselves with their confidence and compassion depleting over time. It is replaced with jadedness, anxiety and even anger or jealousy. That is because the Soul of woman knows it is owed payment. To give of yourself freely without proper payment from a sexual partner leaves the soul feeling disturbed, like the world is unjust and results in negative energy sitting in the tummy, the womb space.

For men, it depletes them of their motivation and individual ambition. They become slaves to their own instant gratification. They lose respect for human life at all levels and become savage animals feeling that someone else is always out to beat them to their aspirations in life when really, they are anxious because they become accustomed to wanting what they want and having it with minimal effort. And then, because they cannot control their own destinies, they disrespect the bodies and lives of women, attempting to control them instead. They enjoy women so much and so freely and then resent women for giving themselves to them. They become utterly disgusted with the feminine energy of the world and in their own lives because deep down at a soul level, they know sexual exchange is not supposed to be this easy or frequent. It becomes a vicious cycle of who hurt who the most. Either way, it disadvantages all genders.

Men prefer to learn the hard way. They prefer to work and prove themselves so women would do well to allow them to rise to the occasion. Men possessed with the instantaneous and easy gratification has caused all of man to lose his moral compass and authority. Man becomes lost and tries to control all that which is not his to control to begin with.

How are Non-Binary or Trans people affected by casual sex?

Non-Binary and Trans people are all affected the same way: whether they are active or receptive energy vessels, they too become victims of perpetual loss of vision and direction, over time they too begin to harbor resentment for life and the world at large.

You spoke about payment for sexual exchange. What are some appropriate forms of payment for sexual exchange?

A payment is meant to better the life of the individual engaging in the act with you. Any form of payment that is offered in sincerity, respect and love may be accepted or rejected by the feminine or receptive energy. Security, respect, protection, financial support, transportation and shelter. Release or orgasm is not enough of a payment for sexual exchange. [This answer is very brief because it’s something the Records and I had previously discussed. To expand, the Records are saying that energy given must be received. Think about it, why give yourself to a person who won’t even pick you up from the airport or help protect your integrity? The Records are saying that many people will feel attacked and argue that their choice to accept a release or orgasm is enough of a payment. The Records are saying it is not because the energy you absorb during sex makes the energy you release look like a cup of water compared to an ocean.]

What are healthy, Godly ways of enjoying sex? 

With love, compassion, attention to detail and with sanctity. The purpose of sexual exchange is to create so always be mindful of what experiences, thoughts and feelings you are creating with a partner. Be respectful of their desires. Be unashamed of your desires. Be aware of your desires and do not allow desire to control you and the decisions you make. Create a loving, open environment for you to enjoy your lover sexually, spiritually and emotionally. Devour each other’s bodies with joy, with certainty and complete trust in each other. Create opportunities for each other and for the collective. Curse, cry out, moan without fear and without guilt. So long as there is mutual trust and respect, sex is meant to be a sacred tool of higher existence. So long as all partners are on the same page, there is no reason to limit yourself in the sexual act. So long as the intentions are mutual and pure, so long as equal energy is received and given, then the act of sex becomes a miraculous, transformative tool of soul development.

What misconceptions about sex can we address and correct now?

Gay sex is not wrong, gay sexual or romantic desires are not wrong. The Highest Authority has no preference about who engages in sexual acts with who. The Creator concerns themselves with the actual act of sex. If it is angry, if it is hateful or manipulative then it becomes high treason, not to God but high treason to the individual becoming lost in pursuit of power. God does not condemn but you as human beings constantly condemn yourselves by making choices that are disadvantageous to your goals. How do you want to be a successful and happy person while you are angrily forcing yourself into a woman who is exhausted of rejecting your offers and has lost her willpower to resist you any longer? We see this tragedy often even in marriages. At this point, woman is losing herself to the negative energy absorbed from her angry and bitter partner. In turn, the bitter and angry partner slips further and further away from the happy and successful person he wants to be.

Whether your partner is of same gender, no gender or opposite gender has no meaning or effect at all. What matters is the intent and the way you conduct yourself within the sexual arena. Always be mindful of what you are giving your partner and what you are receiving from them.

There is no need to be ashamed of your sexual orientation.

What steps can we take to heal sexual trauma and subsequent energy imbalances? 

Cease sexual activity temporarily. Cease and respect your body with proper diet and exercise. Energetically, meditate on the sexual organs and plead for God to assist you in removing the disadvantageous energy. When God’s help arrives, heed the advice. It may come in unexpected ways such as crying, journaling or even seeking therapy but heed the advice when it comes because it will come. You must make the choice to listen when it does. Yoga and meditation help but sexual trauma must be released tangibly. Speaking about it, creating art from it etc is the most honest way to thoroughly balance yourselves again. Work on root, sacral and heart chakras. Seek professional help from spiritual advisors, counselors, therapists and even artists. Every human being is an instrument for Godly direction. You’ll be surprised how much better you feel when you invite others into your healing journey, when you open yourself to receive assistance that you NEED vs the assistance you think you want.

Final word of guidance for all on the topic of sex?

Indulge yourselves freely, holding every sexual act with sanctity and joy. Sex is not inherently shameful or bad. It is the way you are having sex, the attitude you all have towards sex that makes it seem dark and sinful. By becoming more aware of your state of mind, body and Spirit, sex can elevate you into a new and better version of yourself every single time you engage in the act. This should be exciting and motivating to every individual who comes across this content. All should want to aspire to become the best version of themselves and find partners of equal awareness who can then help shape and mold opportunities for the couple to elevate higher and higher. The miracles you can create together, the human life you are capable of creating is all a holy miracle, a holy expression of what happens when two and even more come together in the pursuit of the same collective goodness. Sex is a minuscule demonstration of what humanity is capable of creating for themselves, if only they had the proper awareness and support.

For those who choose to engage in casual sex, you are not condemned. Just delaying your own progression, confusing yourself in the process. Some souls need more time to accept celibacy as an act of discipline and acceleration towards their goals. If you are one of these souls, no further action is required. A life of casual sex is not sustainable and will be outgrown momentarily. Until then, we the Akashic Records will continuously send love and compassion to all sexual beings on the Earth. May you have healthy, bountiful, loving and joyous sexual experiences. Amen.

Amen.

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